After You are Sick
One of the common challenges with Messie Families is that they don’t have clear cut habits. So it’s normal to have a house of chaos after you are sick.
Being ill is no fun. If you are like me you have to deal with guilty feelings of not getting things done even when you know you have a perfectly good excuse.
When you feel well enough to get back into the swing of things what are some suggestions? What do you do? If it is overwhelming first fix yourself a cup of your favorite hot beverage and make a list.
What is needed to keep the house running? Have you paid bills?
What are critical items that need attention: Overflowing trash? Spills or broken items? Errands?
Next what is keeping any workflow from progressing. Are you out of soap? Items dumped where they don’t belong?
What items/tasks can you reasonably expect other family members to do?
Things not to do are multitask projects that you might not finish. OK let me give you an example. Our family likes to soak the silverware before washing. Usually they pick an item needed for cooking such as the rice cooker bowl (yeah I know) or a special mixing bowl and then they go off and forget about the soaking silverware until someone else needs the space or the bowl it is soaking in.
Another danger is making piles of laundry when you know you can only get one or two done. If you can sort it discreetly then fine but often my house ends up with 8 piles of laundry either waiting to be washed or folded taking up all the sitting space in the living room.
So after you are sick it’s not only critical to take things slow and easy – but its also a good time to reflect on your organization and cleaning routines and see what can be tweaked.